Jan 31, 2010

My River Life Immersion


I’ve come back from 8 days of paddling just under 200 miles of river through farm-lands and National Parks of New Zealand. I traveled with 18 other people in a group called the “River Rats.” The “River Rats” are a group of mainly retired (or close to) men who have led trips down the Wanganui River for 34 years, bringing friends and family and visitors along with them each year. There are many commercial canoe companies that lead trips down the river, but they are hundreds of dollars more expensive and cover a significant smaller part of the river. Thus, the “River Rats” trip is only known by locals and by word of mouth. Luckily, a friend of my Aunt’s told me about the trip and I signed up immediately. The trip consisted of 17 New Zealanders, most of whom were burley 70 year-old men with tree-trunk thighs sculpted by years of extreme rugby workouts-and myself. Many of them had done the trip 10 or 20 + years and the fact that they were retired certainly did not put a damper on their strength and ability to embark on a strenuous week-long trip through native bush and river rapids.
They put me in a canoe with the most experienced member, and were not shy about hinting at their assumptions of me being a novice to the outdoors and anything that takes hard work. A few summers ago I had worked for Mass Audubon as a camp counselor and led a canoe trip for 11 and 12 yr old boys through the marshes of New England. This was the last time I had canoed, but I was confident in my ability when I had to rope 2 canoes of exhausted 12 year old boys who refused to paddle any longer, and tow them for an hour out of the marshes to the safety of dry land. Therefore, I knew my stroke was strong and had no doubts in my ability in joining the trip.
My partner and I’s canoe therefore became the leader of the pack and we floated through rapids with no problems and aided others when they needed the help. There were no major white water rapids, but the rapids were big enough to fill a boat with water and make 3 boats in our group capsize. At night we cooked great meals and sat under the stars. We shared stories and had candid conversations about our two countries and the ludicrousy of many things American. They asked me things like why we call foreigners “aliens” at customs in our airports. They are not Americans, but they are not from outer space. I heard horror stories of them being poked and prodded through customs and embarrassing encounters with obnoxious Americans. New Zealand is so far away from the States, that many New Zealanders have spent little time with Americans-the whole trip was a bit of a question and answer session, and of course it went the other way around too. They enjoyed answering my questions about New Zealand, and prided themselves in the magic and beauty of their country and scenery we were embarking on. One night as I was getting ready for bed a Kiwi bird called in the near bye bush. Kiwis are endangered and nocturnal, and it is rare for even New Zealanders to see or hear them. Three different group members ran to my tent; “Pheybey a keywey, a keywey!” I felt right at home and each member of the group treated me like family. One night at dinner, a group of 20 American kids on exchange rolled up to our campsite to stay for the night. I watched them doing their group huddles and group cheers and then looked over to my own group of retired fishermen, farmers, ex-rugby players, search and rescue volunteers, sailors, and bush men- and I have to say that I was happier with them.

We paddled several hours a day and stopped in between for various sightseeing along the river. We tramped up steep gorges through thick bush to find old Maori War Poles, graves and old settlement villages. We also visited waterfalls, explored caves, and hiked to the top of beautiful vistas. Further on in the trip, one of our campsites was located on the same bank as a Marae. A Marae is a gathering place for Maori to carry on their cultural traditions. They are sort of like our Native American’s “longhouses.” Anyways, this one along the riverbank is not usually inhabited, but it turned out that the night we were there, there were 60 Maori people at the Marae. We are not allowed to go onto the Marae, but just before dinner one of the members came over and told us they would like to invite us on and do so in the tradition of a ceremony. So myself and my fellow rugged Kiwi canoeists lined up and entered the gate of the Marae tip-toeing silently as the elders sang to us. The ceremony consisted of a member of the Marae giving us a speech, the other 60 members presenting us with a song, and then we were to elect a member of our group to speak and also present a song. The member of our group thanked them for inviting us and explained that we had come from all over New Zealand to canoe the beauty of their river (to the Maori, it is their river). “And we even have a traveler who has come all the way from upstate New York ,” he said. By now I was peeing myself and was excitedly beaming from my place in the line, looking around and taking in all that I could while this special experience lasted. It was later that I found out it is custom for visitors to keep their face down and not look in the face of the elders. Crap, I blew that one.
It’s custom for visitors to also present a song, so we sang some patriotic New Zealand song in the Maori language which clearly I didn’t know the words to. I watched the lips around me trying to move my mouth in tune with the others. I also blew that one. Luckily all 60 people burst in laughter at our feeble attempt to sing a song in a language we didn’t know. They cheered and we were glad the singing was over. Afterwards I found myself being shuffled into line with the other members of my group, facing the giant line of Maori people. I was told we were about to do the “hongi.” As our lines came towards each other, I realized we were about to rub noses and press our foreheads to one another with 60 Maori people- a tradition symbolizing passing knowledge from one person to another. So along I went and pressed my nose into 60 other people’s including 3 year olds, 90 year olds, women with tattooed faces, and men with tribal tattooed arms and legs, saying ‘Kia Ora’ each time (meaning be well/be healthy, or hi ). Towards the end, one of the biggest, burliest, Maori dudes asked where I was from. I told him New York, and guess what? He dropped my hand and went to the next person. Okay so not all New Zealanders love me, but I’ll try not to take that one personally and perhaps thank George W. for that strange interaction. Anyhow, I was thrilled to have that experience and after the ceremony was over I was allowed to take a few pictures of the Marae.
I started talking to a young woman from the UK who had married a Maori guy and was a photographer and she was going around to different Marae’s photographing them and writing a book on contemporary Maori culture. At that moment I lost all poise and collectedness and blurted out, “ohmygod I want to be you.” Luckily she laughed, and I explained that I have an interest in race and cultural relations and indigenous people, and of course that I love photography. So this experience at the Marae was definitely an unexpected highlight of the trip. I also ate an eel on the trip, which I am pretty proud of. I befriended a group of boys who were fishing eels in the river. I took their photographs, watched them skin and cook the eels, and one thing led to another and before I knew it I was eating one. I add this to my list of great cultural immersion feats similar to eating haggis in Scotland.

Another highlight came one night when we were discussing the next day’s paddle. We were to stop for a morning break on a side river that flowed in the Wanganui, which was the filming location for Gollum’s pool in Lord of the Rings. I could barely contain my excitement the next morning as we paddled closer and closer to our resting stop.

As we turned left into the narrow stream flowing through a green moss covered gorge, I was informed the stream was flooded due to all the rain and that paddling upstream would be quite a feat. This was the first time I truly pulled my obnoxious American card. I screamed something along the lines of, “people, we can DO THIS. LET’S GO. PADDLE PADDLE PADDLE. GOLLUM WAS HERE.” The current was so strong, two boats turned back and waited for us down the river. The rest of us paddled our hearts out. We eventually got stuck between a maze of rocks and we had to get out of our canoes and push them through the water, deeper and deeper until we were up to our chests in water. We pushed our way through, adrenaline pumping, and made it safely to shore. The water level was high and had little resemblance to the movie, but I was psyched to have stumbled upon a Lord of the Rings film location (one that few people go to). Unfortunately, most of the New Zealanders I’ve met refuse to see any of the films, and after we got to shore my fellow trip members turned to me and asked, “Who is Gollum anyway?”
Eight days later I am happy to have a bed, a toilet, a shower, and a real meal, but there is something awesome about being away from reality that long, and it certainly is even more amazing to do it in such an unbelievable place.
My new river friends have offered me to come stay in their homes around New Zealand, work for them, go sailing with them, take care of their children, meet up with their kids my age in various cities around the country, and call on them for whatever I need. It’s said that New Zealanders make friends for life. I hope this is true and I look forward to seeing where my new friends take me and the new experiences that lie ahead.

Jan 21, 2010

A Look into Kiwi Country Lifestyle



The past few days I've gotten the opportunity to visit a few homesteads of friends in the area. Similar to most cities in New Zealand, you can get to the countryside by usually only a minute or two drive from anywhere in the city. A few days ago, my Aunt and I made our way out of the city into the Wanganui river valley, where we visited a local farmer named Donald and his many sheep dogs he keeps and trains. This visit introduced me to the wonderous world of sheep dogs, whom are so important in farming countries like New Zealand. I was told there are actually reality tv shows about sheep dogs. When I think of reality tv I think of bad drama and spring break partying, definitely not sheep dogs. When it turned out that Donald found I was American and didn't know much about the magic these dogs can do, he proceeded for the next two hours to show me the talent these doggies have. He owned some of the best trained dogs in the country, and has one "soon to be champion" dog he feels will go to nationals and win (the one on the right).

The dog competitions enter a dog in the ring with sheep and the dog proceeds to herd them around, over and through obstacles. The dogs do this by listening to their owners commands-a whistle ending with a high note means 'turn left' or a whistle ending with a low means 'turn right.'

The trainer can get the dogs to do all these crazy things just by the way he whistles. These dogs seem also to be born for the job. Donald pulled out one 4 month old pup, where the dog then hightailed around the ring herding the sheep all over the place. Their natural born ability combined with good training makes these dogs natural athletes. Donald proved this to me when he was explaining how he could instruct a dog to charge up the near bye mountain to the top if he wanted, turning left or right or stopping whenever Donald tells it to. I thought this was hypathetical, but then to my amazement he called a dog over, told it to "look" at the mountain, made a few whistles, and then OFF it went across the road, over fences, around trees, and it literally climbed 200 feet in a matter of minutes. The best part is, these dogs live for the chase and sense of adventure. One minute I was cuddling with the dogs and the next they were in the ring light on their feet stalking,barking, chasing, basically DOMINATING an entire herd of sheep. Sheep dogs have really important jobs in places like New Zealand and they are something really amazing to watch. The South Island has a sheep dog statue dedicated to all the hard work these dogs do for the farmers and the local economy.
After I was done cuddling with sheep dogs, I moved onto cows when we visited a couple who make their own cheese from their 3 pet cows. Biddy and Colin were a couple who support themselves by selling their cheese and also charging admission to see Colin's jumbo model train set.

People bring their kids and watch the trains, while eating cheese from the two cows Sally and Molly. I met Sally and was so moved by how beautiful she was. A cow, I know! Sally was a 19 year old cow with arthritis who could barely walk. It is her last summer before Colin and Biddy euthanize her before winter takes over. My heart pinged for her like a family dog in its last few months before being put to sleep. I drank her milk and ate her cheese that day and it was such a beautiful example of the partnership we have with animals.

I don't think I've ever known where my cheese and milk came from, and it was really amazing to me to see the source of it all right in front of me-all from beautiful Sally! I hugged her and thanked her for her cheese, meanwhile I was being called a "softie" by Biddy and Colin. I can't help it that we are cut off from things like this in America! Also pictured is Sally's calf, "Holly."

After canoodling Sally, I tip toed around Biddy and Colin's old farmhouse taking pictures-gumboots and all (with permission of course).


Colin was an avid camera collector with hundreds of old cameras lined up in cases, and Biddy was an artist before she became an award-winning cheese maker.
To keep it short, while I am not drooling over how beautiful New Zealand is, I am thoroughly enjoying meeting the most interesting people and learning more and more about Kiwi culture.

Tomorrow I am off for my 8 day canoe trip down the Wanganui River!!! We are camping along the riverbank each night and cooking our food. It should definitely be a very cool experience. Countless people say it's one of the best things they've ever done and that few people come back with their life unchanged. A few women who have sailed the Nile even said that the beauty of the Wanganui river comes out on top. So with all these high expectations, I am very eager to get started! More updates to come on all that in a week. Here's a preview of what I'm about to embark on..

Jan 15, 2010

The Art of Listening


Now that I’ve been here for 2 weeks (although I feel very at home and it seems like more), I’ve begun to pick up on some major social differences between kiwi culture and my own. I’ve spent countless hours socializing over dinners and tea with different New Zealand families. I have reverted into my more quieter, thoughtful self, where I listen far more than I talk and am much more conscious of manners and politeness. The common perception many foreigners feel of Americans being loud, has never really hit home for me until I came to New Zealand. Yeah, I stood in line next to a loud American in the Auckland airport, feeling embarrassed as he made jokes about declaring the meat on his thighs to customs, but god forbid-I was not one of him. I’ve learned that I too fell into the “loud American” category as I entered the homes of New Zealanders doing what I thought was polite. My first family I met I shook everyone’s hands, played with the dog, talked to the kids, made conversation, spoke clearly, cracked jokes, and so on. In a quieter, polite, and more withdrawn culture this comes off as intimidating and overbearing. Since then, I have had no trouble connecting with people and making friends. Of course, once they get to know and like you it’s fine to open up and talk more. But it has been a dramatic cultural shift for me to always stand back and listen, and sometimes leave someone’s house after a 3 hour meal with having said very little. Sometimes this may mean sitting through someone’s 967 picture photo album of their 2 month holiday in America. I have never seen so many home photos of Sea World in my life until I came here.
I should make a note that all this socializing is done with people ages 50+ (and usually 65+). Wanganui is largely a retirement community where most kids at my age have moved away. I see kids from time to time my age in restaurants or in cars next to me and I stare longingly at them thinking “what are these kids like?” I have yet to enter mainstream NZ youth culture in anyway as I sit back socializing with my 70 yr old friends. At this point I’m not too concerned, as I know my WWOOFing adventures will introduce me to lots of kids my own age. I do miss children though after working with kids everyday for the last 7 months.

I expressed this to some of my elderly friends who happened to be grandparents, and I’ve had myself many days now playing with children of Middle Earth. They are so darn cute and I’ve made many videos of hilarious 5 year olds with kiwi accents, but I am still trying to figure out how to load them on here without it taking a day to load (any suggestions?) The tractor photo is of a family who has taken me under their wing. We played on a farm that day, and chased piglets and pet llamas, and the kids yell “Pheybay, Pheybay!” *Note this is how my name is said in a NZ accent and it makes me want to pee my pants every time.

Lastly, just a quick recap of what I did yesterday. I’ve signed up for a few guided tours of different things while I’m in Wanganui. Yesterday I went on a tour of the Manawatu Gorge near Palmerston North, NZ. I didn’t know what it was, but the word “gorge” was familiar as an I-towner and I enjoy hiking (or tramping as they say) so it sounded great. I loaded the bus with 57 other people, all retired of course, planning for a nice hike up a gorge. They dropped us off in the middle of native NZ bush, which is basically like entering Jurassic Park.
We hiked up hundreds of stairs and down ravines, and across bridged walkways for 5 hours, which I thought was a fairly strenuous hike. I was exhausted, and was caught off guard when all the grandmas and grandpas were booking it with ease. Thus, I’ve come to the conclusion that when it comes to weather and the elements, and strenuous outdoor activity, no matter what age-New Zealanders are hardcore. We stopped for ice cream on the way home, but exhausted and freezing I sat on the bus-only to look outside to the whole group of old folk eating their ice cream in the wind and rain like it was nothing. For godsake ice cream is not for when you’ve been hiking in wind and rain up gnarly paths through the Forests of Fangorn. These people were crazy! Nevertheless, the hike was beautiful, and the bush was like no forest I’d ever been to. Moss covered trees spiraled into a gorgeous canopy with intermittent 500 year old trees along the way, towering above ferns as big as cars. On a cloudy day, the forest was so dark, it truly felt like some ethereal elvin land. My mind resorts back to Lord of the Rings every day while I’m here, but I guess there are worse things in life.

Jan 11, 2010

The Week in Photos

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Look closely for the latest tribal fashions

Where I buy my fruit and veggies

Industrialization meets traditionalism

"Face to Face"

Part of an eucalyptus tree the size of my house!

A friend's garden

Wanganui Culture of Peace Memorial


Baby gets a view

Durie Hill Tunnel




Jan 8, 2010

Whanganui River

This is the Wanganui River, New Zealand's longest navigable river. It is a major point of attraction in the area due to tourism and also it's historical role as a major trade route for the Maori and early settlers of New Zealand.

The river begins on the northern slopes of Mount Tongariro, one of the three active volcanoes of central NZ. It reaches the coast at Wanganui, and in a few weeks I'll be going on an 8 day canoe trip, spiraling though the green gorges and native bush of New Zealand! The river was home to hundreds of Maori villages pre-colonialism, and is of great spiritual importance to the Maori today. It is a fiercely contested region in claims for the return of tribal lands. I learned today that the Whanganui River claim is the longest-running legal case in New Zealand.


I found this graffiti that says "I am the River." It looks like the street running through the middle also appears to be the river (I think). Local kids are getting in a lot of trouble for tagging around Wanganui. There are articles in the paper everyday about increasing security. This piece though, clearly is art.

Jan 5, 2010

Arrival!!!!!

I arrived in New Zealand on January 2nd after taking off the 31st of December (whoa!). As I got off the plane, the Auckland airport was blasting Jay-Z and Alicia Keys’ song “New York.” I guess I felt right at home. I am now in Wanganui where my aunt lives, a town of about 43,000 on the Southwest corner of the North Island. I’ve spent the last few days acclimating myself to the time zone change (17 hours ahead), as well as the climate change. What gets me the most about this whole ordeal is the fact that I’m now living in summer as my friends and family brave freezing temperatures and snow. I sweat profusely the day of arrival but now have settled into kiwi summertime at a comfortable 70 degrees. Life is hard. Though summer here is not like our summer. Being surrounded by water, it is not uncommon for a lot of wind and temperatures to drop periodically throughout the week. Yesterday it was so windy that you could not walk outside for more than a few minutes. I tried, using my whole “I’m in NZ and will not be kept inside” mentality, but was disappointed when I could barely walk and returned home with a runny nose chilled to the bone. Despite the windy day, my face, arms, and legs are significantly tanned after a few days worth of walks around the neighborhood (that’s with sunscreen). This is AWESOME from a cosmetic standpoint, but SCARY from a cosmetic standpoint in 10 years. My tan is a reminder that I can’t take this sun too lightly.
My Aunt has kept me busy with lunch dates, afternoon teas, and dinner parties with local families and friends of hers. I think the predominant amount of Americans in NZ are tourists or young backpackers who very rarely make it to a somewhat normal kiwi town like Wanganui. That being said I am treated like a local celebrity. My first full day we had lunch with a family in their home with the predominant 3hours of conversation directed around me. I was greeted with “OH Phoebe, like from Friends,” (which was normal) and was told I had a really beautiful accent (which was weird). The grandma and grandpa of the family were the only ones who had been to America. They visited California and Florida. Why? Disney Land and Disney World, duh! Their major observations of America were how “clean” Disney World was and how fat people in America are. We compared pronunciations of different words and laughed at each other. They quizzed me on Fahrenheit- Celsius conversion over our food, nearly triggering panic attacks as I am slow at and hate mental math. All of them volunteered in one organization or another, and asked if volunteerism was big for Americans back home. We talked about climate change, and they said anyone not believing in global warming were idiots. On a lighter note, we talked about how we all love dogs, and also how much they’d love to visit New York and the neighborhoods like Queens, Brooklyn, and the Bronx. Much like the rest of the world, I am immediately assumed to be from the city. That night when I was in bed there was a small 3.5 earthquake in Wanganui-which I guess are common for NZ. To my dismay, I did not feel the quiet rumbling-not even an earthquake could disrupt my jet-lagged slumber.
I have yet to do much real New Zealand sight-seeing, but am already blown away by the fairy-tale beauty even a small city like Wanganui has to offer. I truly feel like I have landed on another planet, as there are so many trees, birds, and flowers I’ve never seen before.

a "Pukeko" bird
The ideal climate and location makes biodiversity so diverse, I can pick out something like 20 different species of trees just walking around the block. Absolutely EVERYTHING grows beautifully here. The nasturtium flower we plant in America is a weed in NZ that pops up between the cracks in cities. There are trees straight out of Alice and Wonderland and birds with names like whio,hoiho, takapu, and weka. It truly is a wonderland, and I have to pinch myself to be reminded of the reality of how lucky I am to be here. Anyways, that’s all for now but check back soon for more updates to come!

a "Pohutakawa" tree, also nicknamed as NZ's Christmas tree because it blooms in December


Kai Iwi Beach, a ten minute drive from my Aunt's house

My favorite rock!







Half the world and an ocean away, but kitties in this world are all the same